I liked what you said in启发。矛盾
You are right, one does set the criteria for a future partner unconsciously. In my case, I wrote a list of qualities that I would like my future partner to have a while ago. Not that I carry the list around every day and try to tick the boxes but I do find it increasingly difficult for me to like someone as I mature. However, when I do fall in love, the list goes out of the window.
However, the question is: once the passion has subsided, will I start to notice the lacking of certain qualities in the person? :)
However, the question is: once the passion has subsided, will I start to notice the lacking of certain qualities in the person? :)
我的答案很烂,我还是会说,重点在于你有多爱对方,或者更宿命论一点的回答,看你和对方的缘分有多深。
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一点浅见。
我们在遇见爱情之前。老给自己拟下一篮子的择偶条件。但每次遇到爱时却盲目了。
所以。感觉很重要。
只要爱一个人。我们就愿意把条件降低至符合对方的水平。这是我们心甘情愿的。因为条件好的人未必是对的人。
爱情没有一定的方程式。决定爱情的。是那颗心。不是一篮子的苛刻条件。
因为在爱着一个人的时候。我们也在改变。
所以我很喜欢一句话。类似。当你要求对方100分的时候。请你想一想自己究竟可以给对方什么。
爱情没有对错。只有适合的人与否。只要爱过就不能说什么都没有。
答案在woody allen 的戏里面。
答案在"色戒"里面
lu & steve,
你们现在是怎样,一直叫人看电影。。。。。。
电影这种东西很主观的喔
lu所谓的Woody Allen电影是husbands & wives
steve,色戒,为何是色戒?
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